Providing the gift of remembrance portraits to parents experiencing the death of a baby.
“That night was the worst night of my life. But when I look at the images, I am not reminded of my worst night. I’m reminded of the beauty and blessings he brought.”
Cheryl Haggard, Maddux’s mother and co-founder of NILMDTS
Events & Community
“I can attest to the healing power of NILMDTS portraiture. I see my son every day because of an amazing volunteer photographer. Now, it is an honor to be able to capture the most important moments of undying love for other families.”
Ali Furtwangler, Affiliated Photographer
We journey together as part of a compassionate and supportive community.
Infertility is a string of concessions. The first comes after a few months of unsuccessfully trying to conceive. You realize there’s more planning involved than you ever imagined. You purchase ovulation tests and a thermometer. You download an app and track your results. You note when your period starts when it ends and what your cervical mucus looks like. Then a thought comes to you, and you […]
To The Relationships I’ve Lost Since My Son Died
The following letter was written ten months after our son was unexpectedly stillborn at nine months gestation. My hope is that it will empower other bereaved parents’ loved ones to sit in solidarity with them through the impossible pain of child loss.
Dear Loved One,
I see you. I see you, watching me […]